She'll get over it.
It may take a while.
Having some experience in break-ups involving people with Aspergers, automatically I realize that probably the best medicine is distraction. Get their minds to obsessively go over entirely different tracks by shifting the train engine sideways, as it were.
I also know that whenever I ask if she wants to see a cute picture from Facebook or elsewhere on the web, she'll say 'no'. She's not into cute. Unlike me, she's a hard-nosed cold and unemotional Cantonese female, utterly opposed to cute, adorable, charming, sweet, or any of the other gentler things.
Hard-nosed. Cold. Unemotional.
So the other day I didn't ask.
I just lifted up my computer and rotated it one hundred and eighty degrees so that she could see.
AWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWW!
[SOURCE: http://www.boredpanda.com/rats-teddy-bears-ellen-van-deelen-jessica-florence/ .]
Ooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooo
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ooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooh!
Crucial background: she still has a teddy bear, who is her best friend in the whole wide world. When she was a little girl, she had pet hamsters whom she loved.
Let's call it 'pre-conditioning'.
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I am almost tempted to say "congratulations". But out of common decency I won't do this.
I think it's better for her. But you will remember that I am biased.
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